Daughter Rebukes Father Over 12-Hour Brain Surgery He Learned About on Facebook
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Updated · Twisted Sifter · Jul 28
Daughter Rebukes Father Over 12-Hour Brain Surgery He Learned About on Facebook
2 articles · Updated · Twisted Sifter · Jul 28
Summary
At roughly their 10th therapy session, the daughter told her father it was not her job to protect his feelings after he complained he learned of her brain surgery and scars through Facebook updates.
The dispute centered on an operation she underwent at 18 for Chiari type I malformation that stretched from 8 hours to 12 and left her needing physical, occupational and speech therapy.
Facebook was not his first notice: after seeing her public GoFundMe, he called to accuse her of lying, then received a text with the surgery details but did not show up, call or contribute.
Her response drew on years of estrangement after what she described as violent alcoholism, abuse and custody fights following her parents' divorce, despite her earlier conditions for rebuilding contact.
Now 26 and recovered enough to walk and care for herself, she said the renewed relationship ended after the confrontation, underscoring how a medical crisis reopened long-running family trauma.