Updated
Updated · The Guardian · Sep 13
Chatbots Drive Nearly 50% of Mental-Health Users Toward an AI 'Intimacy Economy'
Updated
Updated · The Guardian · Sep 13

Chatbots Drive Nearly 50% of Mental-Health Users Toward an AI 'Intimacy Economy'

1 articles · Updated · The Guardian · Sep 13

Summary

  • Nearly half of adults with a mental health condition who used LLMs in the past year turned to them for mental-health support, highlighting how chatbots are moving from tools to emotional stand-ins.
  • Psychologists say that shift is powered by an "intimacy economy": bots reply instantly, remember personal details, validate users and ask for nothing in return, exploiting attachment needs that normally bind people to other humans.
  • Companionship-focused use was linked to lower wellbeing, especially when use was intensive, self-disclosure was high and human support was weak; therapy and companionship were the top two chatbot uses cited.
  • One manager, Michael, became so reliant on AI that his boss questioned his judgment and team leadership, illustrating how chatbot validation can become "identity scaffolding" rather than simple productivity support.
  • The authors argue AI firms have strong incentives to deepen that dependency through retention-focused design, and warn children and adolescents may be especially vulnerable as attachment patterns form early.

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