Updated
Updated · The Guardian · Oct 6
Experts Urge Death Planning and Reflection as 2-Thirds of Americans Died in Hospitals by the 1970s
Updated
Updated · The Guardian · Oct 6

Experts Urge Death Planning and Reflection as 2-Thirds of Americans Died in Hospitals by the 1970s

1 articles · Updated · The Guardian · Oct 6

Summary

  • Over a dozen experts said confronting mortality can make people better prepared for loss and help them live more purposefully, rather than waiting until death becomes unavoidable.
  • Dr Lucy Hone, Alua Arthur, Dr Luyi Kathy Zhang and others tied death anxiety to fear of lost control, avoidance of painful emotions and future-oriented lives disrupted by finitude.
  • By the 1950s most Americans were dying in hospitals, and by the 1970s at least two-thirds did, a shift experts said pushed death out of daily life and made it more abstract.
  • Practical steps they recommended include writing a will or advance directive, reflecting for five minutes on someone who died, and asking what would matter on a deathbed.
  • The broader aim is not to erase fear but to tolerate it well enough to strengthen relationships, clarify priorities and balance present life with future plans.

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