TikTok and X Reignite Debate Over Straight Women Dating Bisexual Men, Citing 61 Studies
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Updated · Mashable · Aug 23
TikTok and X Reignite Debate Over Straight Women Dating Bisexual Men, Citing 61 Studies
3 articles · Updated · Mashable · Aug 23
Summary
TikTok and X have again filled with arguments over straight women refusing to date bisexual men, reviving a recurring online fight about whether that reluctance reflects preference, insecurity or outright bias.
A 2023 meta-analysis covering 61 studies and more than 32,000 participants found men reported more anti-bisexual attitudes than women, with the gap especially pronounced toward bisexual men.
Dating-specific research involving more than 1,800 people still found unusually strong hesitation toward bisexual men, including among bisexual women, helping explain why women keep centering in the discourse.
Zachary Zane, a bisexual author and sex expert, said not every rejection is automatically biphobic, but objections rooted in stereotypes about bisexual men being secretly gay, non-monogamous or higher-STI-risk are.
Pew data cited in the report shows bisexual men remain far less likely than gay men and lesbians to be out to most important people in their lives, raising the stakes of a debate that resurfaces almost yearly.